Monday, November 21, 2011

gonna be frank

So yes, Dayton and I are every couple in the world and have rough days, ours was yesterday.

Arguments are the worst when they're happening and some how seem to be a good thing when they're over. It was a tough day for both of us, not that we we're ever down each others throats every second just a few things could have gone better throughout the Sunday. We learned a lot about each other and I improved my communication skills! YAY! (alot of people dont know this but thats like a key to marriage I'm thinkin'. I'm catching on!)

My favorite part of the whole thing is obviously making up. And nothing "inappropriate" just a sweet moment together. After an argument you still have that fifteen minutes it feels a little awkward because you've been frustrated and sad and are in the transition of making things normal. But once we got past that, we spent a quiet five minutes early this morning before I headed to work cuddling on the couch not saying anything, but one or two heartfelt 'I'm sorry's' and after I wrote my love note and stuffed it in his shoes I then went down to my car and read his love note with a few simple gifts in my car and had a quiet moment alone extremely happy that yesterday had passed and excited to see my honey tonight.

Marriage is the best thing ever, and I'm beyond-words-happy I found some one so absolutely perfect for me, and who challenges me and helps me improve, with out even knowing he's doing it. He's all mine forever.

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